In a night club, everyone is drunk, high and just plain stupid.
Dragged by the missus, what’s your move? Lol
i would get more drunk and more high LOL ^^
Sit at the table in a corner on your tablet/phone and read java-gaming.org until your missus is bored and you can go home and get back to programming.
sigh That’s outside the box…
Or just tell her you’re leaving… I don’t get the whole night club scene, especially when you are in a relationship. I mean, girls pretty much go there to dance with guys and get drunk. If you’re not single then what’s the point? If my girlfriend asked me to go to a club, I’d say no because I’m not old enough yet and because its a damn club 
Of course, she would never even want to go clubbing in the first place! That’s why you pick out a girl that’s just a little nerdy so you can introduce her to all the good stuff like DnD and programming 
She loves DnD but I’ve yet to get her addicted to programming working on it…
You’re there already so enjoy it. People watch. Have some fun. Be a little stupid yourself. You don’t have to get high or drunk to do it, if it isn’t your thing.
You’re making the assumption that clubs are fun in the first place. Most mature adults actually don’t like them, or only go in very small doses, once or twice a year with some close friends maybe. 
(and yes, I know there’s exceptions to the rule, but most mature adults can’t stand the “bar/club scene”… and most of the people who claim they’re mature adults who do, aren’t actually mature.) 
Live it up. If it’s anything like here, you’ll either soon chuck your guts up, or some spanner high on eccies will try and smack your head in. Both are reasonable excuses to go home.
(…hence why i don’t like nightclubs much…)
Ugh… dragged.
I’d drink enough just to let the night pass by, then make every excuse not to go after that. Night clubs are only fun when you actually want to be there… Otherwise, it is just drag central. :emo:
If your not into getting drunk/high, It definetly puts you in a shitty spot. Watching people get drunk/high is so awfull. Tough spot.
Is your missus inebriated?
You definetly have to be high or drunk or single to enjoy a nightclub, common.
Completely
Clubs are shite, I tried your suggestion… Thanks, I’ll be on the couch tonight
1 step ahead
Just dance man. Just dance. Drinking will kill your mood even worse if your dragged just go have fun , ignore the nonsense
If your significant other puts you on the couch over that… I really feel for you then. That’s terrible, I hate women that do that, no offense. How is it their right to get mad at you for not going clubbing and getting drunk off your ass? If you don’t want to, you shouldn’t have to AND you shouldn’t have to deal with any sort of repercussions…
Your last two posts sound exactly like how I feel opiop. Haha, I want to find friends that think the same way where I live. I should probably try looking harder, thanks for the motivation!
P.S. you’re lucky to have found someone who loves to play DnD 8)
Well…there are other things. I have been out pub crawling since 1300, I WAS supposed to go and meet her after work but told her to just go home and make her own way up…I also said I would have a drink the house before we go out, obviously that never happened.
Lets just say that there was of things lead to my ultimate demise lol.
I dont think you should.
Its nice to have around people who think just like you, but it will eventually make you dumber and close minded.
I actually admire Gibbo for making an effort for his significant other. I am prety sure she knows you’re not the dancer type and she appreciates that you’re making sn effort to be with her doing something she enjoys. She will eventualy do something she does not enjoy but will do it for you. And thats good in a relationship. You will both introduce something new to each other and you will have more to talk about with each other and with other people.
Its cool that opiop has found someone like yourslef but you should also take care with that. You have to remember to exercise things like curiosity, respect and tolerance towards people not like you. Otherwise you might become a close minded bitter person too soon (we will all be like that but only when we are old).
With cities with millions of people and facebook and stuff it’s pretty easy to close your world to only things you like and live on with your prejudices and idiossyncrasies and you might never get bothered by someone listening to an annoying music at full volume. But you will also miss the chance to discover a new hobby,a funny friend or the love of your life who happens to enjoy dancing even though you dont.
Good alternative viewpoint teletubo, thank you for the reminder. I just haven’t had any close friends for the past few years and I’m getting quite lonely :emo:
It’s easy to find different people in the world, but most of them aren’t open minded and so don’t seem interested in associating with people unlike themselves.
My mention of finding people who think the same way was more along moral lines rather than personnel interests. I don’t want to hang out with people who swear constantly, have their head in the gutter, or want to ‘have a good time’ and drink or go clubbing all the time.
I want to meet people who are calm and thoughtful, I love a good conversation whether similar or different from my own viewpoint :persecutioncomplex:
Sounds like you’re simply just more mature than your peer group.
Referencing my previous post; People tend to become more introverted, less insecure and realize that “clubbin” and all activities related to “clubin” are a silly waste of time as they mature into adults.
Thanks that makes me feel better. I’ve got something to look forward to as my peer group gets old :D, but the window of opportunity seems small, since a lot of people I know over ~40-50 tend to get all reminiscent about events that have already occurred rather than thinking about future possibilities.
Which is a peeve of mine, but I won’t go there…