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#21

I don’t entirely see how having someone that doesn’t drag me places that she knows I would hate is a bad thing? I understand expanding your views on life, but being dragged to a club is hardly going to enlighten me.

A good partner can not only can encourage you to try new things, but actually do them with you. I understand if your significant other forces you to go to a play or a museum because its good for you to experience but seriously. No one in a relationship should make another do what they don’t want especially when it is going to go get drunk and high, two things that aren’t good for your health.

#22

Half the time when your significant other wants you to “have fun” when the activity is immature, unhealthy and you object to it (IE: getting High at a club) they’re actually just trying to justify to themselves that their behavior is acceptable and something “everyone does for fun”. By you objecting to it they have to accept the fact that what they want to do might not be “what everyone does for fun” and thus it becomes much harder to ignore the immature and unhealthy sides of the activity because you’re expressing that there are reasonably alternatives.

…Bet none of you realized a Psychology major can be a programmer/graphics designer. evil grin

#23

I dont think she is dragging him knowing he hates it. Its like showing that youtube video you found hilarious and want to share it with your girl with te hope she wil laugh and feel good with you. Sometimes she will not enjoy te video at all but she will smile nevertheles because she knows you liked it and dont want to spoil it.

Someday he will want to go to a video games show and will like share that with her, even tough she’s not a gamer at all. She might have a good time or not. She will hopefully keep smiling as he did at the club.

And not all people go to club to get drunk and high and not all girls go tere to make out with guys. Some people just like to dance, others to drink. As far as I understod she did not force him to drink or get high. And people (specially women) like to have their partner near in moments they deem enjoyable. Its not only about enlightment and broading your mind, it’s about being a good partner to the one you love.

#24

Get out of the club and realise that you aren’t experiencing love. Or at least, you’re experiencing ‘fake love’.

Real love involves real, like-minded people who you can mentally connect/bond with.

  • Jev