Well it’s a long complicated story. I lost the urge to eat(I like eating), play video games, and code. All I could think about is this girl, and I have to wait till 7th period tomorrow to see her. Ever since Friday I lost interest in everything. How do I get my butt back on track?
You ask her out.
Yeah, the right course of action is just to deal with real life issues before programming. In your case, I definitely agree with the above poster, if you are that interested in her… ask her out.
… This isn’t the place to discuss teenager relationship advice. Go to 4chan for that!
Having said that, welcome to puberty. You’ll learn self control with experience.
(Also; the simple solution is to ask her out, and will either get or not get slapped. But it’s better to risk being rejected, than spend months wondering if you could of been dating.)
I’d advise against asking a forum of programmers for advice about girls
Hey now! I’ll have you know that… wah… you’re right.
But it DOES affect his programming
Lol. I have the full story of what happened. Took me 2 hours of off and on typing and it tells the situation I’m in. It’s pretty messy and has a lot of spelling errors. If you’re up for a romance novel, have fun
You don’t have to download it: https://www.dropbox.com/s/q6g2noatrmzye77/dream%20girl.txt
4chan would tell you to b*ng the b**ch like a dog what are you talking about. Go to reddit, they are a little nicer.
Think about it: You are letting some girl in school stop you from doing something you may love for the rest of your life. Now this girl here, she’s going to go off to college or someplace and you will (most likely) never see her again. But programming will be here pretty much forever. So think long and hard about what you want to spend your time on. If you really are into her just tell her, honestly it doesn’t get any less complicated than that. Of course saying is easier than doing.
What I’m trying to say is, don’t be a coward. Chicks definitely don’t like that.
She’s the only girl in the school i like. The first to give me a chance. She slow danced and hugged me twice. Never happened to me before.I’m not a confident guy either. I’m a sky nerve reck. My emotions are insane and i would do anything
Translation:
“I am just like every single boy my age, I over think every little thing and I worry one wrong move will ruin my life! I also don’t realize that all the other boys are hiding their feelings like me so I assume I’m the only one who feels this way.”
Seriously, you’re too young for any of it to matter. Nothing you do now (within reason of course) will have any effect on your life in 10 years. So just do whatever your gut tells you and stop worrying about it. Worst case scenario you’re still single! Your life will be a lot easier once you realize short of getting good grades in school and keeping out of jail, absolutely nothing you do what so ever will have any impact on your life in any meaningful way.
Anyone over the age of 20-22~ who still talks about High School are usually losers in any context like it was meaningful, most of us stopped caring as soon as we had to deal with real life. Same will go for you, and your life.
Having said all that; Really, JGO doesn’t need silly teen drama posts! Anyone who’s an adult here pretty much finds this stuff silly. You will too someday.
You guys were right, she friend zoned me and told me about a guy she thinks is so funny. I’m now waiting for her. She said she’s typing something long after i said i had some explaining to do
Crush -> Love
Programming -> Love, Programming -> Life
Programming>Crush
I give up on this.she said she had a crush and everything
@AppleSauce
I’m 26. this happens only rarely and with very special women of course, but it still totally happens. Once a woman is in your head like that, she changes everything up in there. How long that lasts depends on the people and the circumstances
She totally digs you man. Just ask her out, the worst thing she can say is no. Which isn’t bad as long as you know how to move along believe me, you will regret not going for it.
Programming==Shrek?
She has another crush and i told her all my feelings. She said i deserve someone better but that’s just a way of saying " i don’t like you like that"
Listen, I remember back when I used to worry about girls like this. It was only a couple of years ago (I’m only 17), but I remember it very clearly. It’s terrible, your emotions and hormones are telling you so many different things and you just want to be with her and it hurts to not be, but trust us, it’s not worth the time and stress you’re dealing with. You’re 13 (stalked your profile, sorry!), relationships aren’t serious yet and they are more about dating someone and feeling affection than they are enjoying the other person. Its harsh, but its true. Middle school and most high school relationships are just focused on feeling good and dating someone because they are popular, not because you truly actually love the other person and care for them. I have a girlfriend and trust me, the drama you’re putting up with is not how real relationships work. My girlfriend is my best friend, but I also love her. She has her faults, but we talk about them and work through them and I support her through everything. The important thing to remember here is that, when you are old enough and the girls are mature enough, you need to find someone you can be best friends with.
It hurts to hear the truth, but really what you’re describing here is the typical tween relationship where the guy “falls in love” because a pretty girl notices him. It feels great, don’t get me wrong, but don’t let her take over your life! Be a teenager and ask her out and have the confidence to do so, girls love that. I’m not overly funny but a little confidence in yourself will get you a long way, remember that!
Don’t worry, you’ll find the person for you someday. Its funny how it all works out, I never thought I would find someone that makes me so happy, but here I am.
/sappy rant