Thanks a bunch.(i do the profile thing too lol). We had this big emotional thing where i explained what i had been through. We both cried but said not to speak of it. My friend redress her and she said how I wrote a huge essay. She said she’ll hug me as a friend though. I guess i needed this. When you find a girl, should she be just like me our really close
It really depends on who you are as a person.
Myself, I really have never done anything “bad” in my life. I had never been to a party, I had never been out for more than a day at a time etc… Basically I was a pretty laid back child that didn’t break any rules.
My girlfriend, on the other hand, is far more adventurous. She takes me to do awesome things and meet new people and stay out for days at a time and I love it because I’ve experienced more in life than I have in my past 17 years (maybe not but it sure feels like it!).
I keep her “in line” and don’t let her do stupid things that could get her in trouble. We balance each other out.
You have to find the person that challenges you to push yourself, but has common interests. My girlfriend and I both love metal and rock, we love being outside and writing/reading. She wants to be a writer so I push her to write more and more. I want to program and be a pilot, so she helps me accomplish my goals as well.
Yeah, I could write about this for a while…
Wow. I saw things a lot differently but thanks
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I’m sorry but we can’t help you without some source code and a stack trace. …oh wait a minute…
Use JQuery.
Don’t fall for it, she is just playing hard-to-get, but this is my approach:
You: I know you were lying, you love me :-*
She: I thought that I rejected you already, why did you kiss me?
Her crush: What did you do, asshole slap
You: grabs in his back, takes uzi murders crush
She: Aaaaah what did you do, ***
You: shoots again, but now she steals cash
You: uploads video
Public: Awesome game(play), even more realistic than Watchdogs! “10/10”
No way I’m asking her out at all after what happened. Now i have to hear people say great job man and such but they don’t know what happened.
I like how you guys transform emotions into code lol
this girl? It must be a deprecated language, never heard of it. Can you post an example?
Mission acc… … failed…
Your job is now to get her out of your mind and look out for other girls. This is what I have experienced to be the most difficult thing to me.
Well she told everyone she knows appearently. Now everyone who knows her is asking. I’m being made fun of like always but this time it hurts my stomache :emo:
[quote]She’s the only girl in the school i like. The first to give me a chance. She slow danced and hugged me twice. Never happened to me before.I’m not a confident guy either.
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Some thoughts that spring to my mind which may or may not apply:
Your class size will increase by an order of magnitude in college. the chance of only liking one person from such a larger pool is significantly reduced. Plus, there is a greater age differential that is considered acceptable, which bumps up odds of meeting interesting potential partners by another factor . This age differential factor increasingly works to your benefit as you progress through school.
True, the fact that older men with younger women is more generally accepted than younger men with older women gives male freshman slightly worse odds than freshmen women. Even so, odds are still significantly better than most High School situations.
Many people approach things in a try-and-buy fashion, or are simply out to enjoy themselves or “learn more about life and people” before getting into deeper commitments. There’s an inevitable risk/reward ratio in meeting people. More likely than not, a match does not result (or only lasts a very short time) and one side experiences rejection. A decent person will try to minimize hurting others.
If you absolutely can not deal with it anymore after waiting at least two weeks, you have options.
Pick a guy that makes fun of you more than the others. Wait for him to say something. Punch him and aim for the nose, hit him a bunch of times if you want. Your principal will side with you when you use the word ‘bullying’ to describe the other kids behavior. Use that word a bunch. If you dont want the girl dragged into the mess, or your parents to know the gritty details of the whole affair, dont give specifics on how he would make fun of you. He will never say anything you dont like to you again. You will be given a light punishment, a couple days of in school suspension.
However even that goes on a record somewhere. I would just ignore it completely, people can’t make fun of you or say anything for extended periods of time without motivation to do so. Ignoring it is the more mature way to go.
Lack of reaction is the best reaction. When it comes to dumbasses people picking on other’s, lack of response will almost always end in lack of attempt after a while.
Because psychology:
Read “Extinction” primarily. Assuming the conditioned response to them picking on you is your reaction, remove your reaction and eventually Extinction occurs.
Sad fact: All human emotions can be dwindled down to base components, no matter how much people don’t want to believe it. We’re all very simple creatures at our core. 
PS: Psych is fun!
You can’t be serious. I have no words for how dumb of a “suggestion” this is. You hit someone who makes fun of you, he and his friends will hit back, aka you will be harassed even more than before. The principal will absolutely not excuse it - the only situation where it’s acceptable is if you’re defending yourself from serious physical abuse, and even then you’ll still probably get a suspension. Suspensions and school fights do stay on your school record, which will affect the choices colleges make. By trying to “fight” back, you’re only showing how he’s getting to you, and as a result also killing your own chances for the future.
Adding to that, and combining it with what Rayvolution said: If you punch the bully, you give him an even better reason to bully you.
Simple advice: Just don’t do it. It’s exactly the opposite of what you should do!
This actually means you deserve someone better. Sometimes you need to listen instead of hearing what you want to hear.
But isn’t this just putting one down easily? She should know she’s a good person. She even told my friend she doesn’t like me like that
You’re the only one here that knows the full situation well. You need to make the decisions yourself. The best we can do is give general advice.
Probably best to ask a close friend what they think.