In this topic, I actually side with “video games” not ruining kids.
The first interaction infants have is with their parents. The people who give the infant the sense of security in food, clothing, and shelter is once again the parents. Therefore, parents are already in the winning side of this debate. When parents neglect to spend time teaching their children what is right and wrong, children gravitate toward media and friends. In my honest opinion, the issue lies with parents depending too much on social media and friends to raise their offspring. There is such a widespread of reasons for it (working 2 jobs, divorce, parents wanting to push their own agenda, etc.)
A huge chunk of this comes from my experience as a tutor, a lot of parents just don’t either have the knowledge, or the patience to go through education with their children. Because of this, a lot of the kids of these parents have a very lowered self-esteem and the feeling like they can’t do it. Compound that with peer pressure over the internet, social pressures to perform well outside, and lack of parental support… We have a lot of sad kids out there, at least where I’m currently located.
Honestly, hopefully, with our current generations understanding of the internet, we can actually “get involved” with our kids a bit more and help them understand the dangers of the internet and social media. Knowledge is the key to fixing this widespread problem. Parents have to take stack and inform their kids of how to use our vast amount of tools properly, as well as pay attention to their kids wants and needs.
I believe this isn’t a video game issue. It is just parents not upholding their responsibilities to what they create.