I have to also give my support to PopFile. It’s a fantastic little program, and I’ve had a lot of success with it as well.
As far as whether or not there is an escape, I’d like to see a completely redesigned Internet, from the ground up, with built in security/spam killing, and other features that fix many of the biggest problems with the current model.
Do I ask too much? Probably, but unless something big comes along to change the way we use the Internet as it is today, I see a new model coming of age within 10-15 years time - whether it be a restucting of network architecture, a software solution, or whatever. Until then, I quietly wait. Call me crazy if you like.
I don’t think that the problem is the people on the Internet (because I think it’s too late to do anything about that now), I think its a systemic problem.