On a more serious note, the reason I stay here on JGO is (most) of the topic matter is worth discussing. Sure, like all forums we have some goofy topics. But there’s a problem with large communities, as they no longer are communities anymore as much as “A bunch of people in one place.” when the numbers get too high (See: Official Steam, PlayStation or XBox forums for example)
Here on JGO, when people go missing someone asks about where they went, even if it’s not public. They still wonder “where did go?”. On a large forum you don’t get that, half the time you don’t even know anyone. They’re just a bunch of faceless usernames who reply to your threads.
Another good example was my original (obviously sarcastic) reply. Everyone here knows who I am, knows I was being a random goofball and knows I don’t normally act that way. If I made that same post on another forum with 100,000 members someone would of called me a troll or an idiot and it may of turned into a mini-flamewar where I had to go defend myself against some flamebaiter who gets pissy at people being “unprofessional” or something on some mini-mod social justice rant that makes no logical sense. But the people here are familiar with my usual content and know I don’t act that stupid unless I’m being stupid for stupid’s sake, and I don’t normally act that way.
JGO actually is very active, like Gibbo said, any good topic usually gets replies within 5 or 6 minutes. Most of us have our tab open to JGO most of the day, even when I was so busy with my Kickstarter I went MIA on JGO for a month or two, I was still here lurking. I just didn’t have time to post anything. Case in point, I bet about 2 minutes after I finish posting this the “users viewing this topic.” will jump to 5 or 6 instantly. While JGO isn’t very large, it is very active and usually the content is more valuable.
The not long winded tl;dr to all this; JGO is better because we actually act like a community, not 100,000 people thrown into a room who might have similar interests but have no idea who the other people are.