I know that English isn’t my mother tongue but there is a serious misunderstanding.
At first, I talked about myself mainly to explain that it’s totally possible to play a lot sometimes and to be in a good mental health. I wanted to explain that the video games can be used as a shelter to work around some other psychological or social problems.
Secondly, I wrote “it doesn’t mean that what Stranger describes doesn’t exist”. Therefore, I don’t understand why you wrote “It’s not just because you can’t get addicted to games it doesn’t mean it does not exist”. An addiction is a compulsive physiological and psychological need whereas there is no physiological need in this case, your definition of the word “addiction” differs from the medical definition. Games aren’t guilty, the real problem is deeper. Why did his brother choose to use video games as a shelter? You attacked me on my political opinions because you lack of stronger arguments and because what I wrote bothers you.
At least 25% of the population in my country consume some antidepressants, it allows the capitalist industry to earn a lot of money from the sadness of the people, the situation is similar with anxiolytics, Xanax is the 12th most sold medicine in the world. Those substances aren’t used to drive people happy on the long term, they are used to ensure that they are still productive because the capitalist system doesn’t accept that people need a lot of time to solve their psychological problems. Those substances are addictive. If the capitalists want to earn much more money, they will prefer people not to solve their problems and it’s exactly what you do, you needed your wife to stop playing too much, it’s easier for you to blame video games instead of trying to find what was wrong in your life to encourage you to spend so much time in playing with a game. I remember hearing about some parents complaining that their children spent too much time in playing video games because it was so easier that admitting that they weren’t good parents, that they spend too much time at work to earn more and more money in order to consume more and more. Come back to Earth, we all make some mistakes, admitting it is the first step to go forth and avoid reproducing them again and again.
Is his current life outside gaming fun? I think that it’s an important question.